Love O/p style
This is a link to an excellent essay from a Dom's point of view. It says so much about what it takes from his side to make things work. It really is not just about getting biscuits and blowjobs on demand, although we joke about that.
I appreciate that my Master makes me feel his leash or his foot on my neck regularly because without that I .... well, just read the essay. It says everything better than I could.