Sunday, February 16, 2020


Sewing, for me, should be spelled "swearing" because that's how I do it.  However, my Master has been making all kinds of garments.  He made this chemise/undergarment for me! 

He left for Las Vegas this morning so I'm here on my own for almost a week. Wish me luck!

Monday, February 10, 2020

TMI Tuesday

1. In the bedroom, what makes you insecure?

Having to be in charge or in control of things.

2. In the bedroom, what makes you a champion?
Giving pleasure.

3. When it comes to sexy time, I earn a gold medal _____ .

4. At the sexolympics, in which sport will you compete?
a. Artistic, synchronized water sex in the pool
b. Freestyle naked wrestling
c. Artistic naked gymnastics

Well, um, wow, what a question.  I guess I will chose wrestling.

5. Your significant other’s ex is coming to town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?
a. It’s okay, no problem.
b. Not thrilled, but go ahead.
c. Not just no… HELL no!

I don't mind, a.

Bonus: What kind of fidelity (being faithful) is more important to you?
a. Physical/Sexual.
b. Mental/Emotional.
c. Neither is important.
d. Both are equally important

Keeping your word is important.  If you made promises, that's  important.  I don't really consider mental/emotional infidelity a thing.  

Wednesday, January 29, 2020

TMI Tuesday

Facebook thinks it was my birthday yesterday.  I kept changing my listed birthday on there (to keep them from knowing my real one- the company, not my friends) but they finally told me I have changed it too many times and I'm stuck with that one.  It makes me very uncomfortable to have 100 people wishing my happy birthday when it's not even my birthday.  And then there are the couple of people with really good memories who know my real birthday is in July and they are posting confused messages.  Anyway, I have no real point as my brain is a rambling, aching, soggy mess. 

And also, here's TMI Tuesday:

1. in a D/S relationship (dominance & submission), what do you enjoy most?

Umm, being dominated? Is that too obvious?

2. what do you want people most to know about D/S relationships?

Which people? I think most people here enjoy or at least appreciate this type of relationship or they wouldn't still be reading my blog. People in general- I wish they would appreciate that it's not abusive for one person to be in charge as long as it's agreed on and consensual.

3. for you, does D/S need to have a sadist and masochist component?

Yes. I'm a masochist so that's a big part of sexuality for me.

4. for you, does BDSM have to involve sex?

It doesn't have to, but I do like sex with BDSM.

5. if you are in a D/S relationship, why do you need it?

I just like it.

6. if you are not in a D/S relationship, would you like to be?


BONUS: what is the relationship between trust and vulnerability?

I think you need to trust someone before making yourself vulnerable to them.

Monday, January 27, 2020


It totally eludes me. I went from one bad cough, to a week or so of "ok" to a horrible stomach virus and then as soon as I got rid of that, the next day I have the sniffly nose back again.  I'm sick of sick!

Tuesday, January 14, 2020

No Limits Slavery

I was talking about my Pokemon game (again) to my Master, and was saying maybe one day I would save up enough coins to buy my character some new cute outfits, but I wasn't sure if that would ever happen.  You can either get "Pokemon coins" in the game by playing, or you can send them actual real money into it and get everything much faster, and a lot more of it.  Except for the occasional birthday when he's let me spend a couple bucks on it, for me it is always the slow way, so I just have enough coins for the items I need to play the game, no extras for outfits yet.

He started telling me this little story: "One day maybe you will have a kind Master who will tell you to spend all the money you want on the cute outfits for your in-game Pokemon character, and he will insist on giving you as much as you need to make your character fully outfitted."

I said something like "There would be no limits. That sounds like the kind of No Limits Slavery I want". 

He looked balefully back at me: "I don't know about that."

If you haven't seen this SNL, it was exactly this tone:

Saturday, January 11, 2020

Friday, January 10, 2020

Back in the Swing

My diet had really fallen off over the holiday, with sweet rolls, and cake, and many many cookies.  Every few days I would try to get back to it, but then something like brownies would magically appear, or a whole box of Honey Nut Cheerios (ok, the last one wasn't magic, I bought it for myself).   I was really worried about going back to a WW meeting; I'd been skipping them for one reason or another every week since before Christmas.  I was worried what the scale would say.

Last night Master told me it was time to start going to the meetings again, so this morning I dragged myself over there in full dread of seeing a couple pounds reappear that I had struggled so hard to get rid of.  

But I'd only gained 0.4 lbs, which I consider a big win!  I'm reving up my commitment to tracking my foods again.  


Sewing, for me, should be spelled "swearing" because that's how I do it.  However, my Master has been making all kinds of ...