I'm hoping to get some reader participation on this, so I'm starting with the question:
Does your Master/Owner/Dominant encourage or allow you to be possessive of him/her? What does that mean to you? Does it help or hurt your mindset?
Or if you are the Dominant, what would you think if your sub thought of you as hers/his? Would you be proud? Would you correct him/her?
For me, the feeling of possessiveness seems counter to being property. I mean, I do say "my Master" a lot, but there is a "my" which is also applied to my town, my country, my father or my God that just implies relationship, not possession. And that is the one I think I'm using all the time.
What if there is a disconnect between how I see things and how my Master sees things? Isn't it my job to get on board with his program? Is it his job to explain things to me so they don't make my head feel all explody?
Anyway, that was my goal last night, to resolve this little, actually very minor, confusion in my mind by writing some thoughts down for him and much two way communication, some of which involved him nearly chopping my arm off, or perhaps just my left pinkie tip.
And then he fucked me all sore, just because it is fun. I think my pussy will be recovered by tonight.