Saturday, October 17, 2015

Hard Things, part 27 (ok, I don't really know what part I'm on now)

Master has to work today, only a half day, and then he's stopping on his way home to see one of the other girls in his life.  I'm concentrating on being a good property, having slavishly submissive feelings and not being jealous.  Definitely a challenge! 
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9 comments:

  1. UnknownOctober 17, 2015 at 11:25 AM

    Yes that is a challenge but its your role to be a good girl and do as he desires. Be strong and he will appreciate your dedication and loyalty to him. Embrace what he does, his pleasure should be your pleasure.

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  2. AnonymousOctober 17, 2015 at 12:46 PM

    What this last commenter said is wrong. Everything about it is wrong. There is nothing, nothing okay with what they said and it is in fact a deeply destructive point of view.

    I won't tell you what you are doing is wrong because you are going to make your own choices. Your life, and decisions, aren't mine to lecture because I don't even know you. But as a dominant male in a relationship I will say that a man doing this would not be a dom, master, whatever who I would associate with or think highly of. My girl and I had a situation like you describe, and it was destructive to her and I regret every moment it was going on.

    Comments like this last person is an empty, pollyanna approach that is not helpful,not realistic, it's enabling of any bad decision as "You're just a slave". As a dominant, that's really not good. As a scene, as a short fantasy, it's awesome. As a way of life it's degenerative and destructive.

    Take this as you will but I hope that you find a point in your relationship where it's about enjoying power exchange, not simply enduring it.

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    1. ancilla_ksstOctober 17, 2015 at 1:28 PM

      Everyone is entitled to their opinion, obviously, but I will just say that the first commenter's post made me feel a sense of acceptance and peace with my choices and yours attempts to do the opposite. Although, I'm having a pretty fine day actually, so I am undaunted by this. What is right for one person is not always the right answer for another. I am a slave, and am good with that description.

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  3. abbyOctober 17, 2015 at 3:55 PM

    We all live our lives differently....You and M complete each other..in my opinion....I bet you are up to this challenge...got any good TV shows on the DVR?
    hugs abby

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  4. dancingbarezOctober 17, 2015 at 4:39 PM

    Hope you have a good day and get to enjoy some time to yourself.

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  5. dancingbarezOctober 17, 2015 at 4:40 PM

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  6. Bleue D'âmeOctober 17, 2015 at 9:16 PM

    Just because we accept some things about our dynamics, it doesn't always mean it is easy to live them. Hope you had a good day and filled your time to yourself well.

    P.S. Can you drop me a line? I have been trying to find your email addy bleuame6@gmail.com

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    1. ancilla_ksstOctober 17, 2015 at 9:19 PM

      I'm not normally allowed to give that out. Do you want to PM on Fet?

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  7. Bleue D'âmeOctober 17, 2015 at 9:30 PM

    Fair! I'll catch you there ;-)

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