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It's been three years
It's been three years, which seems both like a lifetime and a blink of an eye. I still feel the heavy weight of the unfairness that a...
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I just made what would have been a hilarious joke on social media, if only the one other person who would get it would have been around to...
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I've been into clicker training for many years, as a dog training method. It was begun by Karen Pryor as a way to train dolphins more h...
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A lot of people have had to start their life over when the world ended on them in one way or another. A lot have had the crash hit worse th...
balanced!
ReplyDeleteBalanced but mostly kinky sunshine and rainbows :)
ReplyDeleteI think we see parts of both...
ReplyDeletehugs abby
Thank you!
DeleteIn truth, I don`t the blog is completely balanced but I do not think you do it necessarily purposefully. I think you have some aspects to go through/work through yourself emotionally and spiritually regarding life and your chosen lifestyle together. You often skim over the psychological and/or difficult parts of the journey, touch on them in a sentence - dismiss and then opt for the mass on the physical side, the whipping, fucking, caning. BUT it`s your blog, don`t worry what others think, it`s your life/privacy and how you wish to portray it on line is up to you and your husband.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comment! I know I do this too. That stuff is hard to write about!
DeleteI do think we see more than just the rainbows, but how easy can it be for a sub to write about the hard parts when her Dom will read those words later? I imagine it would be pretty hard and that it would force a filter over those words.
ReplyDeleteBelieve it or not, Doms have feelings too. Of course you know that, but I think sometimes subs kinda forget. I don't worry that he's punish me, but I do worry about what he will think. In addition to just wanting to keep some stuff private. Thank you for your comment! So much appreciated.
DeleteI think it's pretty balanced. I will admit to being totes jelly about all the freaking sex and D/s you guys seem to manage to fit in- wish me and Q were that lucky! LOL But it's nice to see someone livin' the dream, even though I wouldn't trade my life for anyone's. XD
ReplyDeleteNot gonna lie, we do have sex a lot. It's all because of Master, he's always liked a lot of sex. Even if it is a quickie, 10 minutes or whatever before bed. I am grateful.
Deletei think it's balanced! i agree with the words up there where sometimes it's hard to consider posting what your Dom might read later. Sometimes i post in the moment and it gets resolved/discussed and things are ok, then i feel guilty it's out there. but that's reality, right? it isn't always rainbows. You've posted about your struggles, jealousies, etc. i think it's awesome what you both have and it's been an honor to follow your journey! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteAwww, thank you too!
Deletebalanced! i agree with you baby
ReplyDeleteI check in everyday for several years. It's my way of passing through the looking glass. More like lollipops and rainbows. But as Marylin Monroe said I always get the fuzzy end of the lollipop.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading! I hope you get the non-fuzzy end soon, truly.
DeleteYou show both, but lean more towards kinky sunshine and rainbows - maybe 70/30?
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