Monday, February 12, 2018

TMI Tuesday for Valentines

1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship.
That's a tough one.  I know people do it, but I don't think that is something I would ever do.  I value myself too much, and my own happiness.  I'm guessing the primary reason is not having a way to support yourself, if people are staying while unhappy.
2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?
I think we are pretty kinky, but anyway YES.  I could always do more, at the whim or demand of my Master.  Always.  I don't think I've ever had a "That's too much kink for me" moment.
3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.
Once while in subspace I hallucinated that Homer Simpson came out of the clouds to talk to me.  I forget what he was saying now.  It seems even weirder to say it than when I actually experienced it. Then, it was like "Well, why wouldn't Homer talk to me in the clouds?"  Totally normal.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?
Yes, my Master has taught me to orgasm on command. He doesn't need to be touching me. He's done it in a restaurant, in a gift shop, over text messages.  Sometimes I have orgasmed without command from certain rhythms and duration of pain (whip, paddle, cane). 
5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?
Sucking/oral sex is always good for getting my Master hard.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not?
Sure, people can do whatever they want.  It's not nice to disappoint your partner though, so you should see if you are in agreement before doing nothing.  I like getting stuff on VD.   


  1. Subspace - talk to me. How do you get there?

  2. For me it comes from pain and rhythm and no interruptions. A long and painful whipping/caning/paddle session without any asking questions or talking, or with minimal talking will send me into subspace.

  3. Yeah, February 15th is NOT the day to discover that your partner actually considers Valentines Day to be a huge commercial marketing ploy that he conscientiously ignores. (Don't ask me how I know this...)

    Of course, if you're that conscientious objector, it's probably no better of a day to discover that your partner is someone who (like, oh, say, me) likes to be a bit petted and fete'd on VD.
    (And by that point, it may well be too late to swear to mend your ways next year...)

  4. Homer Simpson was talking to you from the Simpsons opening in the clouds at the start of every episode!

    the last time I heard the word subspace was Star Trek: The Next Generation, a classic that is arguably the greatest tv show of all time. I’m scared to watch Discovery cos i’m afraid it will be good and then that would mess with my nostalgia

    1. The Simpsons are a pretty big influence on my life.

  5. Sexy time with Homer IS pretty weird!
    Nice answers!!


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