Friday, November 18, 2016

LOL Day

Today is official Love Our Lurkers day!

I'm going to turn the tables around and ask all of you, both those who comment and those who read and never have yet commented, some questions!

How did you find this blog?  Why do you keep reading?

What is your favorite post I've written, and in general your favorite subject/type of post?

What do you consider yourself?  Are you a top, bottom, sub, slave, switch, dominant, vanilla?  How did that evolve for you and are you hoping to evolve it more or in a different direction?

Do you write a blog?  If so, post a link if you wish.   

What do you wish I would post more of?  

What is your favorite blog that you read (not including mine)?


21 comments:

  1. Happy LOL Day!
    I check your blog every day because I love your posts. But I do lurk sorry about that. I love the kinky sex posts but I love the true life difficulties posts the bests. I'm always amazed how sexually active you and your Master are. You go girl!
    I am a submissive pet but the human kind. I discovered I loved and adored the cage and it went on from there. I believe I found you through Kaya blog Under His Hand a while ago.
    Have a great day, I hope you get lots of comments as you deserve them :)

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    1. Oh thank you! Your comments are wonderful! I guess my Master has what would be considered a high libido. Back in his 20s he wanted sex pretty much twice a day, plus masturbating once, which I was totally not up for. I considered a couple times a week plenty! Well, he has changed and so have I and now we are much more evenly matched, due to the fact that he can just tell me we're having sex whenever he wants. In our 20s he considered the lack of sex a major problem, whereas I was more "eh".

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  2. I may be in the minority but I read your blog for the dynamics you have in your relationship. Although kinky sex is nice, I am in a 24-7 type relationship and there is very little information on day to day life.

    I own a wonderful slut who I really enjoy. I do however find it difficult maneuvering from our toe to being around vanilla family and friends.

    I found your blog on the app feedly.

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    1. Thank you so much! I also enjoy other blogs where the daily life and dynamic is evident. It's funny, but we rarely see vanilla friends anymore, and extended family only a few times a year. So all we really have to worry about is the kids and they are used to our routines. I guess all that, plus our very very low protocol, makes it easy for us to navigate that part.

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  3. I, very similar to Daisy, lurk daily... It has been years, and I have commented ( though infrequent) , in the past. I enjoy reading about how your dynamic plays out...

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    1. Thank you so much for your comments! I really appreciate every one.

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  4. I read here just about every day...I love the exchanges between your and Master....I am a sub/slave...do not switch...to answer some of your questions..hugs abby

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  5. These days, I probably read more than I comment ;-)

    I can`t recall how I landed on your blog! I read because I enjoy reading about your day-to-day ;-)

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  6. Good heavens, I'm getting too old in blog-age to remember how I found you!
    Was it gg? nilla? mouse? Pygar?
    It was back in the day, anyhow...
    (You know, when my lurking was a more consistent thing.)

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    1. I read yours also, I think I found it through mouse or nilla?

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  7. I drop in every now and again but don't always comment. I love reading about you and your Master. I guess I'm a sub/bottom.

    My blog name is DOWNUNDER DREAMING if you want to pay a visit.

    Happy LOL day to you.

    Hugs Lindy x

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    1. Thank you, Lindy! I will stop by there.

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    2. I couldn't find it by google, do you have a link?

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  8. Happy LOL! I'm not sure how I found your blog; probably through another blog - a blogroll or comments, probably. I read because I like to see the day-to-day of read M/s or D/s couples.

    Favorite posts... I'm not sure. I suppose I get a kick out of you talking about your farm life. And I like photos!

    I consider myself submissive to my Dominant. We've evolved over the years, with varying levels of kink. We went through a rough time becoming totally vanilla for awhile, but we're building ourselves back. We have talked and probably will lean more TPE in the future, though that's a ways off.

    I blog over at sub-missions.blogspot.com

    I like your posts as is- it is your real life. As for more, I always tell people I like pictures...

    A few of my favorite blogs:

    http://masterdreamsprecioustreasure.com/flog
    http://www.bondageblog.com/
    http://sinfulsunday.mollysdailykiss.com/
    the-sub-mission.com

    Thank you for sharing your life with us!

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    1. I always read your blog too, though I don't always comment. Thank you! I might try to do some more pictures this week, I think it has been a while.

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  9. How did you find this blog?
    I think maybe through Kaya's or Mouse's or 'nillas, or Monkey's blog?

    Why do you keep reading?
    I love your post, you come off as 'real' to me and you seem to be in a great relationship, with the D/s well balanced with real life and humor, and you both have interests and a life outside of just D/s, which helps make it seem more healthy to me.

    What is your favorite post I've written, and in general your favorite subject/type of post?

    Hmm...that's hard. I love the funny/geeky ones myself cuz they remind me of me! LOL

    What do you consider yourself? Are you a top, bottom, sub, slave, switch, dominant, vanilla?
    Sub/bottom/brat/exhausted/could be a switch but He won't let me XD

    How did that evolve for you and are you hoping to evolve it more or in a different direction?
    It definitely evolved over time as I went from aspiring to be The Perfectly Submissive and Obedient Princess Slave to OMG This So Isn't Working and He's Being a Jerk and I'm not Enjoying this to Huh, Well What if We try This, Then? and so on. We've found that the dom/sub roles are absolutely what we love the most and feel the most comfortable with in relation to each other, but it's definitely not something we can maintain 24/7, nor do we want to. We've found that what works best for us personally is slipping in and out of the roles when we can and it's been working pretty brilliantly. Only wish for changes in the future are finding more opportunities to get our kink on, get out more in our local scene, go to more kinky events, etc.

    Do you write a blog? If so, post a link if you wish.
    Yes. http://invisiblestairs.blogspot.com/

    What do you wish I would post more of?
    Whatever you would like to post. I like when people write what they enjoy, for themselves, not just for an audience.

    What is your favorite blog that you read (not including mine)?
    Outside of yours? I love so many...
    http://collaredmom.com/

    http://sub-missions.blogspot.com/

    http://areluctantbitch.blogspot.com/

    http://xpygarx.blogspot.com/

    Are some of my faves. These people write with depth, humor, wit, and either give me new insights, make me think, or else share a glimpse into their lives in such a way that I feel a kinship with them. :-)

    Thank you for sharing yours!

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    1. I always read your blog too, it is very relatable to me. Thank you for the answers. I cracked up right here: "The Perfectly Submissive and Obedient Princess Slave to OMG This So Isn't Working and He's Being a Jerk and I'm not Enjoying this to Huh, Well What if We try This" yes yes yes!

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  10. just found your blog yesterday, been reading for 4 hours now, wow I love it!

    Sub/ pain slut, my Master lives far away and I rarely see him so our life together is unfortunately very online...

    Just started so a whole new world is opening up..

    I loved your virgin blog (but I think I'm not even halfway reading)

    and I'd love to read more about how you do this with kids...

    thanks all for sharing more amazing blogs!

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    1. Hi K1ttysub,
      Thank you for reading! I appreciate the feedback greatly.

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