Tuesday, October 24, 2017

TMI Tuesday: Caring

1. How much time do you spend taking care of your significant other:
a. More than taking care of myself, more than 60% of my time.
b. About 50% of my time.
c. 10% to 49% … I have kids!
d. Not really any time at all, definitely less than 10% of my time.

I don't think I take care of him at all, not in a parental way.  That's just not the way I think of our relationship.  When he's sick or feeling run down there might be a bit of care-taking.
I serve him all the time, or as much as I can.  I take care of the house, the kids, the dogs.  
2. How do you sleep at night?
a. With the whole bed to my myself…yaay!
b. I stay on my own side, someone else on other side.
c. We snuggle–start that way or end up that way.
d. We do not sleep together.

I sleep excellently.  I am tied to my side of the bed. My Master is on his side.  We snuggle at first but then get a little space- millimeters- to actually fall asleep.  

3. What happens when you or your significant other gets home from work?
a. Stop what you are doing to greet and hug each other
b. Engage in conversation about the day
c. No specific acknowledgement of each other, no specific welcoming gesture but go about a household routine
d. Ignore each other

I always greet him and often we hug and kiss.  We ask each other about our days and then get busy with eating dinner together.
4. How many things about yourself would you change? Share 3 things and tell us why.

I want a smaller tummy.  I also hate dieting.  I want my foot to stop hurting.  I want to be brave and confident. 
Bonus: How many things would you change about a current significant other.

I can't think of anything.   



  1. A few weeks ago I asked you if there was sometimes an element of rebelliousness (human beings being complex) - against your parents, establishment feminism, etc. - in your submission. I would be interested in your answer

    1. I'm sorry I never got back to you. I'm not really sure about the answer! I don't feel particularly rebellious, although a lot of the time I feel like a lot of people close to me would not approve if they knew all the intimate details. I'm certainly not out there beating the drums for submissives to come out in the open, or anything like that.


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