For a quick sample, Monday's task list says:
Exercise
Plan meals
Inventory food
Grocery shopping
Vacuum
Dust
Clean (vague, I know, but I always find things to clean, whatever looks dirty usually)
In addition, these tasks have to be done every day:
Get in the mail (except Sunday of course)
Scoop dog poop in the yard
Make the bed
Cook meals
Make Master's tea
Wash dishes
If there are unusual circumstances that take up most of my day or we are traveling, he doesn't expect all that to be done. I will ask if I think something really needs to be moved to a different day and he generally says yes. If however, I was being a slacker, not managing time well, or just forgot, he may decide to punish me for not accomplishing one of the things. Besides the punishment, I hate the dreadful feeling of needing to tell him I didn't get something done.
Now and then he gives me some kinky or sexy tasks while he's at work. Those are the most fun. Sometimes he'll tell me to write him a story. Once I had to wear the tack bra all day, even to the grocery store, and another time the butt plug for several hours. Although on both those last ones I had to call him and beg to take it off/out because of the pain being too much for me. I know, wimpy. He said yes both times, the tack bra after 6 hours and the butt plug only 2, but I was having gut issues at the time. Sometimes he'll require me to masturbate and have a certain number of orgasms, or even tell me what to think about when I do it.

Domestic tasks are definitely not part of our D/s dynamic as that does not work for me at all. It is interesting to read how your separate the types of tasks though and I totally get the bit about feeling terrible when you have to say you 'failed' to do one.
ReplyDeleteMollyxxx
Tasks, domestic or otherwise give me a feeling that I am being of service - that I am doing something that he wants.
ReplyDeleteI wonder how you would feel if the tasks portion was removed, even though it doesn't seem to be a big part of your D/s life?
Domestic chores aren't part of our D/s dynamic. I'm out of the house longer than my Sir is, long hours and long commutes mean I can be tired and grumpy. We share the chores and I can always ask for his help.
ReplyDeleteI do agree the kinky tasks are so much more fun!