Wednesday, January 8, 2014

How To...

I was reading a post over on Fet that asked the question "How do you build a better submissive?" and under it were all kinds of suggestions on how to keep her/him hot all the time- how to spice up the relationship, so to speak.  

Then some of them addressed the meatier question of "How do you dominate someone in daily life, not just the bedroom?" and it made me think of some of the simple things my Master has done that really rock my submissive world, without actually being kinky at all.  

For example, the other day I was complaining about my glasses being all scratched up and he told me to call about making an eye appointment.  What with one thing and another, I never did it, and a few days later he asked me if I'd made the appointment yet.


He put down what he was doing and looked hard at me.  

"Well, why not?"

"I don't know, Master". 

He simply said "That is not an acceptable answer."  

That was pretty much the end of it, except for me calling as soon as they were open to make that eye appointment.  


  1. Yes I get it - it's almost like an invisible thread of control at times - no stern words, no threat of punishment, but perhaps a look or tilt of the head and you know now is the time to be following :) ava x

  2. I really think it's all those moments outside of the bedroom that make me want to submit inside the bedroom.

  3. Well said. A good Dom is in your mind even when they are not physically present.



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