My Master loves how it turns me on, how he can easily embarrass and humiliate me with it, and how he can make me talk to him which is also embarrassing to me and yet hot. He sometimes tells me exactly what to say.
It spurs on our fantasies and our imaginations. We create elaborate, or not so elaborate (Fuck me, Master!) images for each other which makes the sexy times even more exciting.
Some of the things he talks about would have been hard limits for me if I were allowed to have any of those. Years ago I tried protesting "Don't say those things!", which didn't work. At all.
I am a big fan of force and not having any say in this (which you may have realized if you read more than one or two days of my blog) so I got over it, rather than continue to protest. His corrections to me generally went along the lines of "You are my property. You will do as I want, and I will do as I want to you."
That is paraphrased. It was at least a couple of years ago, maybe three, so I don't remember exactly what he said.
Most of the sort of talk I didn't like at first I really find hot now, and if I don't, well, he does what he wants, right?
And that is good for me.
Good for you...and He gets what He wants....pretty simple...sometimes...LOL..
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:) Yes, pretty much.
DeleteI am envious, I don`t know how you "fit" it all in day re what you are both doing portrayed re M/s/your lives in your blogs, especially with children (and the dogs!) Well done!
ReplyDeleteSleep is for the weak and the dead! Yeah, actually we just stay up late or get up early, or sneak off upstairs when the kids are playing video games. Plus you can actually fit a lot of hot action into a 20 minute quickie. :)
DeleteWe have similar feelings about dirty talk - love it, it turns me on, even while it embarrasses me...and then even the embarrassment turns me on. ;-)
ReplyDeleteYes, exactly!
DeleteLove this piece. I can relate quit a lot to it. I love dirty talk as it turns me on even when it embarrasses me.
ReplyDeleteExcellent!!
xxx Miss July xxx
Thank you, Miss July!
DeleteVery sexy knowing that you weren't comfortable with it but did as he asked, and am turned on by it. I love the mental battle that goes with power dynamics.
ReplyDeleteThe mental is what a lot of it is about, right? The brain is our biggest sex organ, they say.
DeleteI'm so with you on that, Sir calling me names has me squirming in both delight and sort of embarrassment too.
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