Wednesday, April 24, 2013

It is a hard life

The only thing worse than being used and abused is NOT being used and abused.   

And on that theme, I found this handy little quote, which I will try to remember:


Expectations are pre-meditated resentments.    So I'm trying to turn loose of them.
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3 comments:

  1. StormApril 25, 2013 at 9:59 AM

    I like that quote. Maybe I should put it on my fridge. And my mirror. And the car dashboard...

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  2. MalcolmApril 30, 2013 at 5:28 PM

    "Expectations are pre-meditated resentments. So I'm trying to turn loose of them. "

    Yes. Where did you find that?

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    1. ancilla_ksstMay 3, 2013 at 1:02 PM

      I found it on Fetlife. Another submissive wrote it one of the threads. I'm not sure if she made it up or saw it somewhere.

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