We have occasionally been to events where he dressed up and I dressed down (naked) and that serves to emphasize a power differential in our minds, I think. It affected both of us mentally and was erotic.
I had written a short but popular piece on one of those times HERE.
In our culture a good looking suit is often linked in the popular imagination with wealth and power. I don't know much about wealth, but power sure figures as a turn on for us.
Does that make it porn?
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Oh you couldnt havent chosen a better picture....that man is just so sexy...with or without a suit!
ReplyDeleteBut yes suits are a huge turn on, i think its because there is something about a man in a suit that screams power. confidence and authority.
I love suits, men in good tailored suits. Some real good shoes underneath does it for me as well. Never realized, but yes it might be a kink for me. Never thought of it that way…
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ara
Nothing sexier than a man in a well tailored expensive suit.
ReplyDeleteI think the draw for me is the fact that a suit, a good fitting suit, is incredibly flattering.
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Those CMNF events just tick so many of my boxes!
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