Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
What I'm drawn to in kinky BDSM stuff is sexy and erotic and a turn on to me.
Is there any way to explain that? How do you explain why one person loves peas and another hates them? Or why one person loves the color purple and another can't stand it? Or why one person loves leather and another loves latex? There really is no good explanation that I've found for these things, they just are taste. Tastes can change over the years, but the why is often not readily explainable.
So, this is the long way to the short answer of "I don't know."