Saturday, March 5, 2016

Abby's Question

Which came first...the M/s or a vanilla relationship....did you always know you wanted to be in a M/s life style?

No, I didn't always know about this.  I was quite vanilla for many years, and really didn't know anything about D/s or M/s and I was completely lacking in the curiosity to find out about anything related to it.  I had a few fantasies, which cast me in the role of slave, but those were fantasy, not something one could actually DO.

  Or so I thought.

We met when I was 15.  He's a couple years older.  We started dating the next year, then eventually moved in together.  We got married when I was 21, nearly 22.  We were happy, had a good relationship, not with out ups and downs, but basically good.  But we were quite vanilla, aside from a few things that Master suggested that were a bit more spicy, up to the summer of 2011 when I got online, looked up some porn, discovered this whole D/s thing and people who lived it- and I asked him if we could try it.  His response was not just yes, but "Oh hell yes!"  and we didn't really look back.   

 
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2 comments:

  1. kayaMarch 5, 2016 at 10:44 PM

    "summer of 2011 when I got online, looked up some porn, discovered this whole D/s thing and people who lived it- and I asked him if we could try it."

    I feel like this needs more detail. Like, how did that conversation go? How has it matched up to your previous slave fantasies? Had he already been checking out bdsm porn, too, or how did he know what he wanted or what you wanted? Has there been a learning curve? Did you jump in the deep end, full on non-con, 24/7 or did you start slower, lighter? What parts have been better, and worse, than your fantasies?

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  2. abbyMarch 6, 2016 at 6:30 AM

    Thanks , I love His answer to your question...was it unexpected or did you have an inking?
    hugs abby

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