Friday, March 14, 2014

Question 14 (part 2)

I was so excited about getting to the store and making pie I forgot the last question:   

Also, how did you go about getting involved in BDSM Community things?

I had belonged to another BDSM site, not Fetlife, for a few months when one of the members on there convinced me to look for munches and get involved locally.  That was when I joined Fetlife to look for these "munches".   

Master was very wary, but he let me go to the first one alone (we didn't have a babysitter or he would have gone too), after giving me strict instructions on what I was allowed to do and not do there.  I was utterly terrified at first, and barely made in the door without running off.  But I found just a very welcoming and relatively ordinary group of people there, having fun, and they welcomed me right in.   The next one, Master came with me.  After a few months of munches we were invited to a private party. 

It took a long time before he decided he would be comfortable going to a bigger event, and our first one ended up being Twisted Tryst in 2012 (talk about into the fire!).



  1. We are new to this. We have a six year old and we are wondering how it works for you and your Master? My Master is nervous about the pain aspect. I have a high tolerance for pain. I have severe migraines so I don't process pain normally. Any advice

  2. Thanks for answering my questions!! It sounds like your M has a hilarious sense of humor!!! I thought of a couple more questions for you... Which of your life passions have been put on-hold to currently live in the lifestyle? What is one thing you think your readers would be surprised to learn about you? Are you able to spend ANY money freely such as a weekly type of allowance? What are your pet peeves in general (not necessarily related to M/s lifestyle) What is one of your favorite songs or quotes?


FFF 17

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